I understand that some of you do not agree with me. And I don't know why you don't send me a private letter. Perhaps I should try and explain again what I am saying because I don
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Are you really that dense and unfeeling? It's not what you're saying that Julie et al objected to...it's that you decided to pontificate in the thread where people were offering their condolences, sadness, and well wishes to those who knew her. A thread that very likely will be viewed by members of her family, friends, partners, and the people she was climbing with. It is totally inappropriate to lecture people and take them to task in that context. That's what you're getting flack about.
Eventually you did move it to a secondary thread, but not realizing that's what you should have done with your first post on the subject is the problem.