Thanks for the reply Rob. Looks like the scenario I was picturing at the Overlook parking lot wasn't what you meant to describe.
And yes, I suppose I get peeved by some rule violations. I haven't done the self reflection to completely bound when/why, but I do get irked when everyone is OK with just a little infraction for themselves that is minor in isolation, but becomes an issue when everybody acts that way. A good example would be cutting trails and erosion issues it causes.